Relationships tend to lose their spark in the long run.
This is why it is essential to keep the spark alive to avoid losing your relationship.
Texting is a surefire way to keep this spark alive.
I understand that not everyone is good with words, and you might not know how to express yourself properly.
Which is why I’ve put this piece together.
There are ways to make him pursue you all over again, from teasing texts to encouraging texts, intriguing texts, and complimentary texts.
In this blog post, I’ll be sharing practical texts to make him pursue you all over again
Let’s go!
10 Texts to Make Him Pursue You All Over Again
1. Teasing Texts
When you want your man to pursue you all over again, send teasing texts to him.
Tease him to the point where he consistently wants to be on your case.
This will ensure he stays in communication with you all day.
For example:
- Remember that one night we couldn’t stop laughing over the silliest things? I miss that.
- I still think about that rainy day we stayed in and watched movies all afternoon. Can we do that again soon?
- I just remembered the time you totally beat me at poker (even though I let you win 😉). We might need a rematch!
2. Intriguing Texts
Another type of text you can send to keep him enchanted is intriguing texts.
The sole idea behind this type of text is to arouse curiosity without giving away too much.
A little mystery encourages him to follow up to learn more.
This will spark his interest in what’s happening in your life.
For these types of text, there is always a follow up which will help you guys stay in communication.
For instance:
- Guess who just got an amazing surprise today… 😉
- Ran into someone we both know today… you’ll never guess who!
- Something reminded me of you today, and I can’t stop thinking about it. 😏
- Just had the best idea for something we should do… but you’ll have to wait to find out!
3. Complimentary Texts with a Twist
Complimentary texts are also an excellent way to keep a man pursuing you.
We all like compliments, don’t we?
So, when you compliment him, you create a soft landing for him.
It makes it easy for him to express himself and love you without forcing things.
Complementing him is a sort of green flag from you to him.
For instance:
- Saw someone at the coffee shop who looked like you… almost asked for his number! 😜
- Saw someone today who had your style… but definitely wasn’t you. Miss the real deal! 😜
- Almost complimented a stranger on looking like you… almost! 😆
- You know, no one quite rocks that look like you do. Keep up the good work!
4. Encouraging Texts
Don’t we all want someone who encourages us in our corner?
When you encourage your man and cheer him on, he will definitely stick around.
This could in fact mean a lot more to him during the days he’s feeling down.
It is a way of showing him you are in his corner.
When he is aware of your undying support for him, I bet he wants to stay around for long.
For instance:
- You’ve got this! Can’t wait to hear how amazing you do today. 💪
- Here’s to you making that project look easy! Rooting for you big time!
- I know you’re going to crush it today. Show them what you’re made of!
- Hope you’re nailing everything you set out to do today. You’re unstoppable!
- Just wanted to say you’re going to be amazing. Go out there and own it!
5. Playfully Daring Texts
This simply means playfully daring him to get a reaction from him.
One thing about men is that they don’t like to lose.
When you dare him by instigating him, he’ll want to show you he can do what you asked.
It’s the natural winning instinct in men.
For instance:
- If you come up with 10 reasons why I should cancel my plans for tonight, I’ll sleep over for three days.
- I bet you can’t guess where I am right now… think you’re up for the challenge?
- Do you think you can handle hanging out with me tomorrow? I might just be too much fun
- Dare you to find a better way to spend the evening than hanging out with me
6. Expressing Your Standards Texts
Sometimes, a man may lack the courage to be with you because he fears not living up to your standards.
However, you can simplify the situation, especially if you equally like the guy.
Be expressive about your standards and what you want in a man; that way, he doesn’t get the wrong idea about your type of person.
Stating the qualities you appreciate reminds him of the standards you have.
It subtly encourages him to meet those standards to stay connected to you and align with what you value in a relationship.
For instance:
- A thoughtful guy who remembers the little things is definitely my type, just saying
- I admire people who are ambitious and know what they want in life
- There’s something special about someone who’s kind and goes out of their way for others
- I love a guy who can make me laugh and be supportive. Just a random thought. 😊
7. Sending a Simple “I Was Thinking of You” Text
It’s straightforward and warm.
You’re reaching out without an expectation, and it shows that he’s still someone you care about.
This small nudge can encourage him to initiate more contact, feeling appreciated and thought of.
For instance:
- Just wanted to say hi and hope your day is going great
- Thought of you today and it made me smile, hope everything’s good with you
- Wanted to check in and see how you’ve been
- Just wanted to let you know you crossed my mind today. 😊
8. Self-Care Brag
Showing him that you’re caring for yourself and feeling fabulous can spark his admiration.
When you’re feeling good, it’s attractive, and he’ll likely want to join in on your positive energy.
For instance:
- Spent the day pampering myself and feeling so refreshed right now
- Just finished a workout that kicked my butt, but I feel amazing
- Treated myself to my favorite meal today, feeling pretty spoiled
9. Reminiscent Texts
Reminiscing about positive memories you’ve shared together can bring back those good feelings and remind him of the special connection you two share.
This might motivate him to want to create new memories with
For instance:
- Remember that night we tried to dance to that awful band? Good times. 😊
- Thinking about that night we tried cooking together… we were a mess, but it was fun.
- “Remember the inside joke we made up? Still cracks me up every time!
- Ever think about that random road trip we took? Good memories right there.
10. Confident “I’m Doing Great” Texts
When he sees you’re thriving, it can stir his curiosity and admiration, making him want to be part of your adventurous life.
Expressing your confidence and independence makes you even more appealing.
For instance:
- Spent the day conquering new goals and feeling unstoppable. How’s your day looking?
- Just tried something I’ve never done before, and let me tell you, I nailed it! 💥
- Another day, another milestone reached. Life’s looking pretty good from here!
- Not to brag, but today’s been all wins. Think you can keep up? 😎
Conclusion
There you have it!
When you want a man to stick around you, try sending him an intriguing text, complimentary texts or any other texts discussed in this article.
You will be doing yourself a huge favour.
