Dating today almost always begins with texting in some form. And, texting a guy isn’t alway easy.
Even the most charismatic guys can sometimes text like a brick in the wall.
Even if a guy really likes you, they’re not always great at communicating and conversations can grind to a halt, leaving you wondering what to say next.
There are plenty guys out there that couldn’t pick up your signals with a satellite dish.
And… how can you flirt with him when you can’t smile, touch his arm or bat your eyelashes at him?
These flirty texts for him will get even the densest guys to wake up and notice you.
Plus, I’ll tell you the 2 times of day that you should never text guys if you want them to ask you out.
So, I’m going to share some flirty texts for him that I’ve developed that will be sure to get your flirting game to the next level with that tough-to-text guy.
1. The teasing flirty text
Teasing is a great way to create some tension in your texting.
Seduction requires a bit of back and forth, so being super direct isn’t always the best move.
You want to keep the conversation going by keeping him on his toes about whether or not you’re into him. That’s why teasing can be a great tool in your arsenal.
This is a good response for when he tells you something about himself that is neither good nor bad.
Say he’s a fan of a particular sports team. He likes beer over wine. He does Crossfit. Whatever he shares, you reply with:
“That’s why we could never date.”
For example:
“Oh, you’re a Toronto Maple Leaf’s fan? That’s why we could never date.”
This is a playful way to subconsciously introduce the idea of dating. But make sure it’s something that isn’t negative.
If he opens up to you about his parents’ divorce and you say, “That’s why we could never date.” Then you’re going to be staring at a blank screen.
Another way to word this is:
“I’m SO out of your league.”
For example:
“You’ve never seen Space Jam? I knew I was out of your league.”
See how you can be playful and fun while still moving the relationship forward?
This will also put him into a state of competition where he’ll be trying to prove himself to you without even realizing it. It may seem like a rejection, but if done right, it won’t feel that way.
If you’re worried about him taking it seriously, consider including a winking emoji to show him that you’re flirting and messing around.
2. The compliment flirty text message
This is a great copy and paste flirty text and that’s a little cheeky it will boost him up while also making you look confident.
You’ll open with this:
“I think we’ll get along. I like a man with good taste and I can tell you have it.”
When he asks the obvious question:
“How can you tell I have good taste?”
You say back:
“Because you’re texting me.”
This type of flirty text message works because it shows that you have a sense of humor and that you’re sure of yourself and that you think he’s interested and open about it without being too obvious about it.
3. The challenging flirty text
Pick something you know he’s good at. Many men are competitive and have a game, skill or hobby they excel at.
Figure out your guy’s interest and fill in the blank on the following copy and paste flirty text:
“You seem to be pretty good at _____ but you’ve never faced me.”
For example:
“You seem to be pretty good at darts but you’ve never faced me.”
The power of this flirty text is that it suggests the idea of the two of you spending time together in real life. But it’s also a joke so it’s not too confrontational and still gives him the upper hand.
Challenging him in something he’s good at is playful because it makes him feel like he’s a big shot.
Just don’t pick something you think you can actually beat him at. Save that for the second day. Men thrive on competition.
And if you challenge them, it will get their blood pumping and make them associate you with achievement and fun.
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4. The quirky question flirty text
This is one flirty text message that works because it gets him thinking. It forces him to respond and it surprises him. Being spontaneous and keeping him guessing is something that works well early on in a relationship. If he thinks he knows exactly what you’re going to say next, then he’s going to get bored.
Here are a couple of examples:
“Where do you see yourself in five beers?”
“Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses?”
If these questions seem silly, it’s because they are. They’re designed to make him giggle and give himself – give him something to respond to.
Another one that you can use if you’re feeling more comfortable is:
“What’s your favorite place to go when you’re feeling lost?”
This one works for the kind of guy who likes self-reflection, artists, writers and deep thinkers. This question requires the kind of guy who can be vulnerable so use it with caution.
But displaying the ability to be sensitive and open to exploring that side of things without judgment can be a real source of attraction for the right guy.
The trick with these types of flirty texts is that they invite an unexpected answer and will fuel conversation going forward.
They also make you seem interesting and interested in what he has to say.
That’s pretty powerful for sending him one single text flirty message.
5. The name flirty text
This one is less of a copy and paste flirty text but it’s a powerful trigger that will get interested in you without realizing it. Use his name in a text.
This works because it’s something we rarely do in conversation and especially over text message. It will catch his eye and also instantly make the conversation more personal and focused.
This can turn an ordinary text on its head and give him a little burst of good feelings without quite knowing why.
Be careful not to overuse his name in your texts though, or it’ll lose its power and make him feel like he’s talking to a used car salesman.
At the beginning of this, I promised you that I would tell you two times not to text a guy if you want him to ask you out.
2 things to avoid texting him
The answer is first thing in the morning and after 11:00 PM.
The late night text is more obvious. You want to avoid the kind of conversations that only happen late at night because they can lead to some more sexy situations.
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing but if you’re looking for a relationship, you need to make him work a little bit. So texting a man late at night right away may send the wrong message.
The first thing in the morning text is for the opposite reason. It makes it seem like you’re too serious or like he’s the first thing you think about when you wake up.
A good morning text is for boyfriends and grandparents and this guy is neither of those just yet.
Plus, how good are your flirty texts really going to be before you’ve had a coffee and a bagel?
Keep it until after lunch as a general rule to avoid coming on too strong.
There you have it, five copy and paste flirty texts for him that will get the conversation going, build his interest and create the pleasing tension that will move things forward.
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