Today, we’re going to talk about how to make a man fall in love with you.
I’m going to give you seven different things to do that can help you make a man to fall in love with you.
Number seven is the most important one by far, so make sure you stay tuned for that.
It’s really easy to get guys to be attracted to you. I’ve done some content on that if you have any challenges attracting men.
It’s not hard to get a guy sexually attracted to you.
You know it’s easy to get him into the bedroom but how do you make him fall in love?
How do you connect with his heart?
How do you make him feel like you’re this amazing, special, awesome woman that he wants to be with?
Let’s talk about how to make a man fall in love with you right now.
1. Be the type of woman he wants to show off in public
So number one is the first thing that you want to do is you want to be the type of woman that he wants to show off in public.
Men want to feel like they have a catch.
Like they caught this beautiful, sexy, gorgeous woman that they are proud of and want to show off to the whole world that she’s his.
If you go out looking like the type of woman that he thinks is absolutely amazing and showing off yourself, you know a lot of guys, unless they hit overly jealous, you know, they kind of want that, right?
They want to you know take you out in public and be like,
“This is my girl. She’s awesome, beautiful and amazing. Check her out.”
That can be a really powerful thing that can kind lock him in and get him to be like “She’s the girl I want.”
2. Be truly happy by yourself
The second thing that makes him fall in love is that a woman is really happy by herself.
He doesn’t have to work really hard to make you happy and it’s really easy to be around you and to hang out with you and just spend time with you, right?
There’s a study done by the Gottman Institute that found the only way a couple is going to stay together is if there’s five times as many positive emotions as there are negative emotions.
And… if you want him to experience lots of positive emotions, make it easy for him to make you happy.
Make it easy for him to be around you and hang out with you. Because the easier he feels that it is to be around you, the more he’ll feel like you’re meant to be together.
There’s this thing that I talk about in one of my programs where guys just want to be able to hang out around you, right?
If they’re into some hobby, work from home or they do something like drawing (whatever he’s into), he wants to be able to just hang out there with you.
He wants to be able to just be able to hang out with you without it having to be this weird interaction where he’s got to do things all the time.
He just wants it to be easy.
The easier it is to be around you, talk to you, spend time with you and tell you anything, the easier it is for him to let his guard down and allow himself to fall in love with you.
Number three is strong eye contact. There’s the idea, “Your eyes are the gateway to your soul.”
If you look another person in the eyes (not like weird, creepy staring) you’re intensely focused on them.
Even if it’s just for short periods of time, you don’t have to constantly be looking him in the eyes but you connect through the eyes and that can be a very, very intensely intimate way to connect with another human being.
It’s really powerful to build that connection between the two of you that makes him feel connected and more in love with you. It’s not even a conscious thing.
4. You have a life of you own
Number four is having a life of your own and not being totally smothering over this guy.
Here’s the reason why.
There’s a power dynamic in every relationship.
It doesn’t matter what relationship you’re in. There is a dynamic of who has more power and less power in the relationship.
The more power a guy has, the less likely he’s going to feel like you’re somebody that he wants to fall in love with.
The more power you have, the more he’s going to feel like you’re somebody that he wants to fall in love with.
Just like the last way men fall in love, this isn’t in his conscious awareness. It’s this feeling that he has with you.
You have independence and your own life, your own things going on— not to the point where you don’t have room to have a guy in your life— but to the point where it’s not all about him.
You have value and power in the relationship. It’s more of an equal footing.
The more you have an equal footing, power and value in the relationship, the more he’s going to allow himself to fall in love with you because you’re so great, amazing and awesome.
5. You have things in common
The fifth way to make a man fall in love is to focus on things that you have in common and things you share together.
A lot of times when people break up, they say, “Oh, we didn’t have anything in common.”
I don’t think that necessarily having lots of things in common necessarily determines how good a relationship is going to be, but if you do have things in common, it can amp up the positive emotional experiences you have in your relationship.
The more you connect on those things that you do have in common, the easier it’ll be for him to feel really, really amazing when he’s around you.
Like the other reasons men fall in love I was talking about earlier, having things in common will make him feel like he has permission to fall in love with you and give himself to you.
Oone of the big things is that it’s not about necessarily can he fall in love but there’s a certain extent to which those things can happen.
It’s really about him pulling down his barrier to falling in love with you.
Most people out there— men and women— have had a lot hurt in their life.
They’ve been broken up with, they’ve had their hearts broken before and they go into these relationships and they have this barrier up that stops them from connecting their heart to another person.
You want him to be able to take down that barrier when it comes to you.
The way that you do that is by making him feel like you’re somebody who it’s safe to take down that barrier with.
When he feels that, he’ll take down that barrier and allow himself to fall in love with you. That’s really what he needs from you more than anything else.
6. You accentuate the things that make you unique
Number six is accentuating the things that really make you unique.
Some people have lots of things about them that are uncommon and some people have nothing in uncommon about them.
You want to have things that are different about you that you really enjoy which allow you to shine.
A lot of times, women are afraid of their uniqueness.
Uniqueness about themselves, their personality, and their bodies. They’re afraid of those things because they think that they are flaws.
If a guy really likes you, he’s not going to think they are flaws.
He’s going to find that those are the things that make him fall in love with you the absolute most.
You want to be able to open up about those things whether it’s about your personality, your body or whatever it’s about.
Those are the little things that’ll make a man fall in love with you in a deep, deep way.
7. You really believe in him
This is the most important thing that I’m going to talk about.
It’s really believing in him, showing that you believe in him and looking at who he is.
It’s not necessarily falling in love with this idealized person that he wants to become but believing in his ability to become that man that he really wants to become.
The more that you can look at that and compliment him on traits and characteristics of who he wants to become or who he idealizes himself as being and then say to him,
“ I can see you’re getting there. I can see you being that man. I can see you creating that world you want to create, develop and build. I can see you’re the man for that”
The more you can kind of reinforce that around him, the more he’ll feel like, “Oh my God, this woman is this absolutely special, amazing woman. She’s the one for me.”
Did you know that you can trigger a man’s hormones through your text messages?
It’s true.
How you communicate with a man can actually release different hormones in his body.
One of the most important ones is testosterone because that’s what makes him CHASE you, pursue you, and invest in you so that he gets “hooked” and desires something more with you.
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