Relationship Advice: Women are lonely because they are stupid. 8 Reasons Women Are Lonelier Through the Eyes of Men
Today you can often see successful and beautiful, but lonely women. They complain that no worthy men are around, but have they ever thought that the reason may lie in themselves?
Here’s What the 8 Most Typical Reasons for Female Loneliness Look Like Through the Eyes of a Man
1. Women are lonely because they look gloomy
Many girls look so gloomy that you don’t even want to approach them. Their thoughts are filled with far-fetched problems, which are reflected in the sad and tense expression on their faces. These suffering ladies want to see an understanding man next to them who will accept them as they are. But they don’t understand that life is already full of problems, and if you don’t learn to appreciate the bright moments, you can remain alone behind a wall of gloom for the rest of your life. Men get tired of breaking through clouds every day to get to the snow-white cloud. A woman should carry the light of positive energy and warmth.
2. Women are lonely because they demand too much from men.
With such women, a date and communication turn into an interview with a whole list of demands. At the same time, a woman considers herself entitled to put forward such demands only because of the presence of long legs, beautiful breasts or invented uniqueness. Some ladies consider themselves a gift from heaven, so they behave as if a man should be at her feet all his life and put everything he has into her. It is especially annoying when a woman constantly demands money. This makes men unsure of their sincerity and that they will be faithful or will not run away to another “wallet” in case of financial problems and difficulties in life.
3. Women are single because they are delirious about marriage.
After just an hour of communication with such women, a clear picture of how she will change the design of her future husband’s apartment, what she will cook for breakfast for her beloved, and where their children will study appears in their eyes. Such a speed of planning the development of relationships is not just incomprehensible to men—it scares them. However, women do not notice their excessive desire to quickly arrange their lives so that they are no worse than their friends.
The couple hasn’t even figured out if they have common interests yet, and she’s already plotting how to get a stamp in her passport as quickly as possible. And then women wonder why men tend to marry simpletons.
It’s very simple: men, of course, enjoy spending time with beauties, but they want to live with someone with whom they have common interests, who doesn’t make plans for the next 5 years and is ready to simply enjoy life, who is ready to jump up and unexpectedly go snowboarding with her loved one, and not spend half a day in a beauty salon with a dissatisfied and worried look.
Don’t make long-term plans; show the man that you don’t care whether he gets married or not; show him that you value life today and now, that you just feel good with him, and very soon you will notice changes in your life.
4. Women are single because they complicate things
Men are frightened by women who try to make global psychological excavations of causes and consequences out of the slightest insignificant event. Example: He didn’t call at lunchtime as he promised—a meeting of girlfriends is urgently called, everyone reads the horoscope together, calls a fortune teller, and spends a long time delving into the hidden reasons for what happened. Of course, sometimes it is necessary to analyze actions and events in moderation.
Don’t draw conclusions for a man; you may be wrong and be offended by what you have imagined for yourself. As a result, the atmosphere in the relationship is escalated out of nowhere.
Instead of whining, complaining, reproaching, and trying to understand the hidden motives of the behavior of everyone around you, it is better to take up your favorite hobby or another useful activity.
Stop rereading hundreds of books and articles on psychology and driving men crazy with monologues on this topic. Learn to enjoy life without analyzing every action. Just enjoy life.
5. Women are single because they don’t like sex
In this matter, some women go from one extreme to another. There are those who look almost perfect, which cannot but attract men. However, in bed, they behave as if they use sex to tame and hold a man. They are not capable of any experiments; they are constantly worried about a ruined hairstyle or smeared mascara, as if they are simply condescendingly giving a man what he wants to receive without enjoying the process. Such women believe that sex is exclusively a man’s business, and she can just lie there, and that will be enough.
Women are stupid if they think that the fact of sex is important to a man. He needs a woman who will share his interest in this process. Why don’t some ladies start exploring this area with the same enthusiasm with which they look for a new handbag or new manicure options?
It’s time for women to understand that men are built this way. They need and care about sex, the process itself, and its quality. They don’t need the first easily accessible girl they meet. A man tired after work will happily rush home if he knows that his beloved is waiting for him, wants, and is ready to make his fantasies come true. Even if there is no time or energy for this in the evening, it is important for a man to just know this.
6. Women are single because they are stupid.
Taking a beautiful photo for social networks, applying the right makeup, or choosing a perfect outfit—unfortunately, these are the only achievements of many girls today. Men are disgusted by stupid women who love crazy selfies with duck lips and with whom there is nothing more to discuss except the clothing trends for the current season.
There is another type of stupid woman. They consider themselves unique, persistently try to stand out from the crowd, and most often—this is just a manifestation of complexes about appearance. They try to prove that they are comfortable being fat, or pump up their muscles and become like men, periodically getting indignant and emotionally expressing their hatred to everyone around them, and especially to men.
It is difficult for such women to admit their mistakes and start working on themselves; their stupidity is reflected in everything, from their appearance and look to their behavior.
Men eventually run away from both types of such women. And instead of thinking about and correcting their mistakes, these women start hating men again, eating candy after another breakup, and sadly re-watching Sweet November.
7. Women are lonely because they don’t want to develop themselves
This point can be suitable for both women and men. Many women make a lot of demands on men, while they themselves do not want to change or develop anything in themselves.
Most women stop developing when they get married. And motherhood for many women becomes the limit of possible development. They stop being that sweet girl that a man once married. They become fixated on the child, and their whole life revolves around him. Women not only lose their interests but also stop taking care of themselves.
Men are killed by this grey reality, when a woman loses all interests except home, everyday life, and children. He wants to see a woman who is in love with life and respects herself, who wants to develop and who knows how to have fun.
8. Women are lonely because they don’t know how to love men
Many lonely women tell stories about suffering without love and about terrible men who simply use them. At the same time, women themselves are selfish; they have forgotten how to love and care in a banal way.
A man wants to come to a house where he is welcome, where it is comfortable, warm, and cozy, and his woman is the center of this comfort. A man wants to see a woman who will listen, understand, and support him, inspiring him to new heights, and not grumble, reproach, and set an example for others.
Men are like cats: they are easy to tame if you feed them on time and show them affection. They want to see a gentle and caring beloved woman at home, not a bitch who screams at every opportunity.
Meanwhile, the streets continue to be filled with beautiful, smart, and lonely women with a predatory gaze, calculating plans, and emptiness in their souls. They become embittered, degrade, cry at night and blame men for everything…
