Relationship Advice: If You Want To Find Your Person, Never Do These 14 Things Again

Relationship Advice: If You Want To Find Your Person, Never Do These 14 Things Again

Otherwise, it’s my own fault 💔 💏

1. Be inspired by any good deed. 

You may think a cute stranger is a real man because he opened the door for you once, but that doesn’t mean anything. Try not to fall in love with every guy who isn’t a total jerk.

2. Sit on Tinder.

Yes, there are some nice guys there looking for a serious relationship. But most of the men there are just looking for someone to have fun with. If you want something real, try more serious dating sites.

3. Write to him first.

This doesn’t mean you can’t initiate a conversation at all. You can text first. But if you do it all the time, 7 days a week, then you like him more than he likes you.

4. Complain about how bad it is to be alone.

If you tell yourself you’ll be better off with a guy, then you might settle for the first guy you meet for less than you deserve.

5. Be afraid of serious conversations.

I know you don’t want to seem desperate by asking for a relationship, but you’ll save yourself a lot of trouble if you discuss your prospects with him as early as possible.

6. Change your appearance.

If he doesn’t love you for who you are, then he’s not the one for you. It’s that simple.

7. Getting drunk before meeting men.

It can be scarier to meet people when you’re sober, but when you’re drunk, you can let your guard down and end up with the wrong man.

8. It takes too long to write to him.

You shouldn’t be texting for months before meeting for the first time. He may be perfect on the phone and online, but you may not feel anything when you meet in person.

9. Settling for less than you deserve.

Stop wasting your time on the wrong men.

10. Have low expectations. 

They say that girls have high expectations and that they are waiting for a prince on a white horse. But in reality, most of us have very low expectations. And this needs to change. Wait for a guy who will truly love you and respect you.

11. Comparing everyone to your ex.

Don’t think that everyone is the same. Yes, you were hurt in the past. But that doesn’t mean you will be hurt again.

12. Comparing yourself to your friends.

They may not be as happy in their relationship as they want to appear. And if they are, use that as motivation: if they can find someone, you can too. 13. Don’t meet guys in real life.

Don’t just look for them online. Pay attention to the guys around you in everyday life. Maybe you’re missing someone special.

14. Believing that you will be alone forever. 

If you tell yourself a lie all the time, it will become your truth. Don’t do that to yourself. You deserve true love, and you will find it.