Relationship Advice: The Truth About How Men Choose the Woman They Are Ready to Marry
The truth about how men choose the woman they are ready to marry. They do not need borscht and not lacy underwear! What they really marry for: You can be a queen in bed, have a dream figure, and, in general, all the men passing by can lick their lips, looking at you.
But this does not guarantee that you will be married. It almost does not matter, alas! The decision of a man whether to marry you or not does not apply to the bedroom.
And now you’re wondering, What else do they need? It’s simple. Men marry those who make them better. Those who make them want and strive to become better versions of themselves.
They meet a girl, and then they catch themselves thinking that the house has somehow become cleaner, the car is always washed, and they themselves look and feel better.
And then… more! All these good intentions at one fine moment turn into the realization, “I want to take care of her!” So simple. “I want to know where she is and what is happening to her.
I want to know that she has enough gas and that she has her hat on. It is important to me that she feels good and looks good.”
And now you are asking yourself, “Great! How can I achieve this?”
Answer: You can’t. There’s nothing you can do about it. You can’t force this feeling to come. But you can let it happen.
And one more thing. A point that follows from the previous one. You have to let it happen. You have to feel easy, free, and comfortable when you are cared for.
You must learn to value yourself and feel that you deserve the same treatment from others, not because you do this or that, but because you are who you are!
And if He decided to look at your car or stop by for groceries for you, don’t blush, make excuses, or try to do something in return to be on par. Don’t. Just smile, tell Him warmly and affectionately, “Thank you!” and accept it as your due.
In order for a man to become better, you need to give him the opportunity and space to do so. And then he will marry. When he feels that you trust him, value him, and love yourself! Now you know how men choose a woman.
